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D.C. AA Chapter a Cult, Critics Say
May 2, 2007

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A Washington, D.C., Alcoholics Anonymous group is being accused of turning into a cult of personality, with members encouraged to cut off ties with outsiders and have sex with other members of the group, Newsweek reported in its May 7 issue.

Former members like May Clancy charge that members of the Midtown AA chapter, one of the city's oldest, deviated sharply from the base philosophy of AA, which avows that there are no program "leaders" and explicitly discourages sex between members. Clancy said the Midtown group seemed to attract older men and younger women, and was initially welcoming.

"When I went there [beginning in November 2005] I didn't really talk to anybody, didn't trust anybody," said Clancy. "And these people would hang out with me even if I didn't say anything, and include me in conversations. I was desperate to be liked at that point."

Soon, however, she began to sour on the program. Members allegedly told her to cut ties with anyone outside the group, deleted the phone book from her cell phone, and pressed her to stop taking medication for her bipolar disorder. Clancy said that the younger members of the group were expected to perform menial labor for older members, and were encouraged to sleep with them, as well.

Clancy said she only realized how dysfunctional the Midtown program was when she left and began attending another AA meeting. She joined a large group of former Midtown members called the Concerned Friends Group that has blasted Midtown for misusing the AA name and has sought to expel the group from the churches where its meetings are held. Concerned Friends members also have complained to police, but an investigation found no evidence of criminal acts.

Criticism of the Midtown group has been somewhat muted, however, by the combination of stigma and AA's tradition of anonymity, which has made some former members reluctant to publicly condemn the group. Likewise, no current members of Midtown agreed to be interviewed by Newsweek on the record, although they defended the program and said critics were either jealous, vengeful, or deluded.

Former members like Lauren Dougherty have been more outspoken. She said she attended Midtown meetings 11 years ago as a teenager and was assigned an AA sponsor rather than choosing one. Dougherty said that members told her to cut off friends from her old life, even those who did not drink, and to get an "AA boyfriend." The final straw was when she was pressured to have sex with other members, she said.

Kristen, 26, another former Midtown member, said her sponsor cursed her out when she announced that she was leaving the group. "You will drink," Kristen recalled the older man telling her. "You will fail. You will die."

"I was so tired of being afraid all the time," she said. "I'd rather die than be in Midtown again."

Local treatment programs have also become wary of Midtown. "They start isolating people, getting them away from any feedback other than their own ... Only go to their meetings, only talk to people in their group," said Jay Eubanks, an administrator with the Kolman Clinics. "If you're seeing a therapist, stop seeing a therapist; if you're in treatment, stop going to treatment; if you're being medicated, stop seeing a doctor."

Concerns about Midtown have caused some therapists to sour on AA in general. "At this point, I am very apprehensive about referring any clients to AA even if they are severe alcoholics," said clinical psychologist Ellen Dye of Rockville, Md. "I think that it is essential that this group be eliminated from AA so that my colleagues and I can feel safe making these referrals again ... We're all saying, 'Go to AA, go to AA,' and we may be sending people into this terrible situation and not realizing it."

Midtown still has defenders in the addiction community, however. "I know people in the group that have long-term sobriety and are doing great," said Beth Kane-Davison, director of the addiction program at Suburban Hospital in Bethesda, Md. For some, she said, "Midtown has been a real godsend. It's taken them in and structured their activities, and filled the void left because they're not using anymore." Still, Davidson has stopped referring patients to Midtown because of concerns about the program.

AA's national headquarters has had nothing to say about Midtown, which comes as no surprise to anyone familiar with the completely decentralized organization, which has no spokesperson and no national leaders. "I think AA is a miraculous organization that is run by nobody and controlled by nobody, and is complete, pure anarchy -- as long as it's tied to the 12 steps -- and I mean that in a good way," said recovering alcoholic and AA member David Hanrahan. "There are meetings all over the world, and anyone can start one, and nobody's in charge of it. That's AA's strength and weakness, right there."

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Posted by Justin Plunkett on 06 Aug 08 02:01 PM EDT
My two experiences with AA showed the same thing. When intorducing yourself and the nature of the problem I had I got the same basic response from one of the senior members. What was said by a guy with a big red nose went something like this, "Oh buddy you are nothing, I used to drink two jugs a moonshine and did for forty years". This is support? My believe is that AA is way to religous in its ways. You better show up with a God in your head or one will be forced upon you. They also want to keep you in the loser mode for your entire life and offer no credit for what you own efforts have done.

Posted by Debra on 08 Aug 08 01:47 PM EDT
AA has saved my life!!! Never have I heard such crap this guy above me wrote. He obviously has no idea what he heard. My "Higher Power" has shown me a way I never new. And he wasn't shoved down my throat. This place seems like it is a horrible place to go to a meeting. Too harmful for words!!! They should be shut down!!! If you don't like the meeting go some where else. This is a free country. Just don't go to the Midtown group. You might end up with HIV by the looks of it.

Posted by KJ on 14 Aug 08 11:09 PM EDT
Members of this group clearly violate AA traditions. AA has no opinion on outside issues and therapy/meds are definitely outside issues and are described as such in the Big Book. Most large groups have a few creepy members though so I would be curious how widespread these practices actually are. Older men sponsoring young women they're trying to sleep with is hardly conducive to recovery.

Posted by just me on 10 Jan 09 01:04 PM EST
AA is not the way! I wish people would wake up like i did. I attended AA for 8 years and was unable to stay sober for 30 days, 90 days, and at 6 months. until, that is, I stopped believing I had an incurable disease 2 years ago, and since then I have been clean and sober for 2 years!! I have bought a house and I am a general manager at a multi-million dollar restaurant. I have continued to achieve all my dreams and it continues to get better and better! all because I stopped going to AA meetings. How I did it was, I watched a video and read one book. "The Secret" DVD and "Awaken the Giant Within, by Anthony Robins". Tony Robins doesn't say, you have an incurable disease, he says you have a power inside you, and once you tap into that power you can achieve Some would say I got lucky, but the people who have known me for 15 years call me the "miracle man" good luck to you who think AA is the way. lol really good luck!

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